Friday, October 26, 2007

*****Relations******

Relations. A word too small, yet powerful enough to shatter anyone existing. A word that makes u feel too secure by presence of someone and sometimes make u scared of the same person. A word which binds any two individuals with so thin thread that when broken leads to many consequences in various ways. Be it a relation of Love or Hatred, be it of Superiority or Inferiority. Relations always have same effect when lost. But still relations change with three most important factors affecting human lives -- Time, Person, Place.

You reach a particular height in some field and you see many by your side. Let alone the reaching part, u just inspire to be on the top and you see many with you. But once u slip n fail, due to whatever circumstances you have been in, u loose almost all of them. People always praise the rising Sun n the star once lost is never searched or helped until he rises again himself the next day. And den someone who once said, "You don't deserve the place you seek", take no time to say, "I always knew he would make it". Someone, whom you help sometime with no intention of anything in return, take no time to say,"You helped me for this cause", if you u ask for some help from him later. Relations are broken many-a-times due to creation of new ones. Someone once loving u more than anything else existing, at least pretend to do so, forgets you due to rising commitments towards other works or may be due to very sweet nature of his/her/its towards someone newly born or some newly found friend or sometimes due to loss of the same. People, whom u consider to be your very own and hence say things, which you feel can't be said by anyone else or to anyone else, think you to be rude towards themselves or boring to talk to as u like to walk about yourself and cut you out. People, whom u care about so much that u do whatever possible to make them happy, may other day not even look back to you just because of some silly mistake or misunderstanding.

Relations have always been in diverse terms. Some are lost to save some others. The priority is defined by what lasts till end and what makes the individual, taking decision, happy. Past commitments hardly matter when it comes to present matter and hence are lost in high waves to give pass for the new ones.